Ok...I just need to vent a little....arrrgggg!!! Why do I even bother?I have been thinking that often lately...but the thought comes more and more often!
This is two-fold, one is about people who bitch and complain about something that you did...and it takes them one month to discover...and the other is about differing opinions and when someone just puts an opinion out there, there always has to be someone who comes along and makes a sweeping statement!
On to the first....as I mentioned before I decided after 2 years of being ignored, unappreciated and discounted in my marriage and feeling like I was the only one making an effort to hold the marriage together that I would leave my husband. I won't go into details, as each has their view, and I feel that mine is right, but I made the decision and I moved back in with my parents. While I was here he told his family, and said things were "cool" between us, and that it shouldn't affect any of the relationships that I had with family or mutual friends. So two months later I went down to get all of my things, including my dog, and naturally no one helped my father, my nephew and I load up the moving truck. Now also in that month no one that I knew of these friends or family who were on my facebook account tried to contact me in anyway, nor did any of them call me. In fact two of his sisters "unfriended" me from facebook the day they found out about us splitting up...and one of them was very childish and made some stupid comments on my page right before she unfriended me. Ok...so what, I gave them 2 months, and the weekend that I was there, and then decided that I didn't need any extra baggage in my life...so I went through cleared up my FB friends, and got rid of many of them. So 1 month later I get a call from my soon to be ex, and he says that his niece is really upset that I unfriended her. He doesn't want to deal with her being upset, so can I fix this...Yeah I say, so I send her a friends request...she friended me...and then less than a week and a half later she unfriended me. Now I could care less...but WTF...I could deal with none of their drama in my life right now...as I have enough with no job, no money as I spent it all supporting my husband for the last 2 years, and everything else up here! Arrggg!! I am so glad that my "real" ex's family...the boy's English family has never been this petty and childish...
The second deals with people in general. I have posted recently on a group that I am on, and while the postings have in general not been that bad...someone HAD to come one and make a "sweeping" statement that something never happened where she worked..negating what someone else had had happen on two occasions. Now I have no idea if this happens...I have not checked it out...I had made a comment about being a little upset over a particular comment on an article...and this person went on to say don't read the comments, but got the location of the article completely wrong, putting it in the wrong newspaper. It is as if she was doing what she commented people do in her post.
Now I know that comments on stories upset me sometimes...but we were having a fairly decent back and forth before this post showed up...so I really got a bit upset...so much so I feel like I might leave the group for a while, or just not get emails from them for awhile! arrgg!!
Ok...I've ended the vent for the day...thank you
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